Dear Diary,
Sometimes, we don't know what to expect, but we keep on hoping anyway. Here's an account of my "hope".
21 February 2016:
Mr. J and I went out for Airshow 2016 andwe I dropped by Guardian after that to get a home pregnancy test (HPT) kit. I always told myself not to "test", lest I'll be disappointed. But we bought anyway. There was a promotion going on for $5.20 for 2 HPT kits from Guardian. Seems like the pocket wont hurt if (naudzubillah min dzalik), I'm not pregnant this time round. We grabbed.
22 February 2016:
Tonight, I couldn't sleep, but I forced myself to. I had the urge to take a sample test and see the results. But I calmed myself and felt assured that it could still be too early to test.
23 February 2016 (Test Day):
Wee hours in the morning, shortly after Mr. J has woken up from his sleep to study for his exam course, I woke up too. I waited for him to leave the room and I quickly went straight to my drawer to dig out the HPT kit. I then went to the washroom and tested.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
One line. :(
As with other earlier months, I took the foil, inserted the soiled HPT kit and wrapped it nicely before I disposed it off without Mr. J's knowledge.
I went to Mr. J, hugged him and cried....as usual. I told him that I tested and it's negative.......
He assured me that it's okay.........not okay though. But I stopped crying after a while and redha that this month is not the month yet.
Later that morning, I got a text from an ex-BTB turned friend (F), asking me if today's the day (to test). Told her I did and that it was negative. She told me that it could be too early to test since hers only showed a positive result after 2 weeks of missed period.
So, I thought maybe there's hope, insya'Allah.
24 February 2016:
I woke up with no visits from Aunt Flo (AF) yet. I don't know if I should test one more time. But I'll guess, I'll just wait...
25 February 2016:
I'm officially 2 days late. This morning, I took the other HPT kit for a test and it showed me...
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
Another negative.
What's happening to meh?!
My kiasu-ism led me to text F (friend stated above) and the other friend whom recommended me the masseuse the other time (lady S) that early morning. I suddenly felt paranoid that the massage I had, might cause a delay in my period, than resulting into a pregnancy. F told me that hers wasn't delayed and S told me that hers is usually delayed. At least, I do know that F is a regular like me, so it sort of helped?
S then asked me the brand I used to test as she said cheaper brand(s) doesn't work as accurate as Clearblue. She tested using Clearblue and it showed a positive. As kiasu as all mums-to-be/TTC ladies, she also tried purchasing another one after that, but cheaper, and it showed a negative. She said some kits can't detect early pregnancies. :O Wow, price and branding does make a difference huh? Her cheap one was going for $10 a kit; mine's half the price of hers. lololol. Oh, budget me!
Anyway, seeing that I do not have the time and luxury to purchase a Clearblue HPT kit since I'm not located anywhere near a Watson/Guardian store, I'll just leave it until the weekend. I'll monitor as well if Aunt Flo's comes for a visit - HOPE NOT!
If you ask me, at this stage, I do not have any pregnancy symptoms. A week before my cycle is due, I did have a continuous migrane, but I guess it's not related? So, I don't take that it's counted. Other than that, feeling of nauseous at the same time was on and off since I have a lot of angin/wind in my body. So it's not realllly related as well. Well, we'll see how this goes :)
25 February 2016 (Part 2 of the day):
Applied an urgent half day leave as I was feeling rather unwell at work. Thought it'll be good to drop by Watson located at NEX and get myself checked with a kit from Clearblue.
Was preeeetty nervous.
Didn't feel the need to relief myself after I got home, so I drank a few glasses of water and slept it off. Woke up about 2 hours later from my nap, tore away the plastic wrapping, rushed to the restroom to test.
.
.
.
.
.
Went to do some reading & I find this pretty interesting:
Source
Some understandings with regards to this whole faint-line-on-pregnancy-kit episode:
- It could mean that you ovulated much later than the average 14 days normal ovulation reading.
- It could mean that you test it during a later part of the day, where your urine is diluted as compared to the the first urine in the morning after you wake up - hcG level is much higher then.
- Worst come to worst, it could also mean that your hcG level is too low and it could result in a non-viable pregnancy (Naudzubillah min dzalik). :( Whatever it is, I should remain positive.
Maybe I shall monitor some more.
Banyak do'a dear me.
27 February 2016:
Mr. J and I went to buy the twin set of Clearblue HPT as I was planning to test it by the end of my supposed menstrual cycle, and the week after, if the faint line still making it's appearance.
29 February 2016 (7 days after Test Day):
Woke up to the sound of Mr. J waking up at 5, revising for his course. I was still feeling groggy, but I felt the need to pee. Quickly went to the HPT box, and took it to the washroom.
I can't seem to tear the plastic apart. My heart was pounding furiously.
When I finally got it torn apart, my heart whispered, "Please Ya Allah. Berilah petunjuk kepada kami. Kalau saya mengandung, berilah tanda-tanda yang jelas". I sat down, peed and waited...while my heartbeat started to raise.
The test window started to shade...
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
"Please, please, please".... my heart begged.
Out came a +. It was a positive. I remembered staring at it in disbelief and almost blurted out an Alhamdulillah, while still seated on the toilet bowl. Tak senonoh.
I cleaned myself up and figured a way to let Mr. J know.
[Background: Prior to this date, wayyy back before I'm supposed to have my period, he has been asking me when is my period due. Macam tahuuu je.]
So, in a way, I can't surprise him since he has been very involved in this whole testing thing. Hmph. Nevertheless, I went to him and told him, "It's time to get me a new comfortable bed", and placed the test kit right in front of him.
His eyes widened as he took the kit and looked at it. Smiled to me and said Alhamdulillah, hugging me so tightly after that. I started tearing... Both of us have been waiting for this day to come.
Syukur sangat sangat.
I *should* be 5 weeks pregnant? According to the estimated calculations done over the net.
Now now, I do have a number of shortlisted female Gynaes I have in mind under KKH:
1. Dr June Tan
2. Dr Suzanna Sulaiman
3. Dr Tan Kim Teng
Hopefully, there's slots for any of the three above.
But before that, insya'Allah will do some "formal" checks to confirm.
Sometimes, we don't know what to expect, but we keep on hoping anyway. Here's an account of my "hope".
21 February 2016:
Mr. J and I went out for Airshow 2016 and
22 February 2016:
Tonight, I couldn't sleep, but I forced myself to. I had the urge to take a sample test and see the results. But I calmed myself and felt assured that it could still be too early to test.
23 February 2016 (Test Day):
Wee hours in the morning, shortly after Mr. J has woken up from his sleep to study for his exam course, I woke up too. I waited for him to leave the room and I quickly went straight to my drawer to dig out the HPT kit. I then went to the washroom and tested.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
One line. :(
As with other earlier months, I took the foil, inserted the soiled HPT kit and wrapped it nicely before I disposed it off without Mr. J's knowledge.
I went to Mr. J, hugged him and cried....as usual. I told him that I tested and it's negative.......
He assured me that it's okay.........not okay though. But I stopped crying after a while and redha that this month is not the month yet.
Later that morning, I got a text from an ex-BTB turned friend (F), asking me if today's the day (to test). Told her I did and that it was negative. She told me that it could be too early to test since hers only showed a positive result after 2 weeks of missed period.
So, I thought maybe there's hope, insya'Allah.
24 February 2016:
I woke up with no visits from Aunt Flo (AF) yet. I don't know if I should test one more time. But I'll guess, I'll just wait...
25 February 2016:
I'm officially 2 days late. This morning, I took the other HPT kit for a test and it showed me...
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
Another negative.
What's happening to meh?!
My kiasu-ism led me to text F (friend stated above) and the other friend whom recommended me the masseuse the other time (lady S) that early morning. I suddenly felt paranoid that the massage I had, might cause a delay in my period, than resulting into a pregnancy. F told me that hers wasn't delayed and S told me that hers is usually delayed. At least, I do know that F is a regular like me, so it sort of helped?
S then asked me the brand I used to test as she said cheaper brand(s) doesn't work as accurate as Clearblue. She tested using Clearblue and it showed a positive. As kiasu as all mums-to-be/TTC ladies, she also tried purchasing another one after that, but cheaper, and it showed a negative. She said some kits can't detect early pregnancies. :O Wow, price and branding does make a difference huh? Her cheap one was going for $10 a kit; mine's half the price of hers. lololol. Oh, budget me!
Anyway, seeing that I do not have the time and luxury to purchase a Clearblue HPT kit since I'm not located anywhere near a Watson/Guardian store, I'll just leave it until the weekend. I'll monitor as well if Aunt Flo's comes for a visit - HOPE NOT!
If you ask me, at this stage, I do not have any pregnancy symptoms. A week before my cycle is due, I did have a continuous migrane, but I guess it's not related? So, I don't take that it's counted. Other than that, feeling of nauseous at the same time was on and off since I have a lot of angin/wind in my body. So it's not realllly related as well. Well, we'll see how this goes :)
25 February 2016 (Part 2 of the day):
Applied an urgent half day leave as I was feeling rather unwell at work. Thought it'll be good to drop by Watson located at NEX and get myself checked with a kit from Clearblue.
Was preeeetty nervous.
Didn't feel the need to relief myself after I got home, so I drank a few glasses of water and slept it off. Woke up about 2 hours later from my nap, tore away the plastic wrapping, rushed to the restroom to test.
.
.
.
.
.
It seemed like a realllllly faint positive (or was it a negative?) Stared really closely and ahhh, took the box and stuffed it in back into the box. By this time, I was having mixed signals. I did/do not have the symptoms of Aunt Flo's coming for a visit, nor do I experience any pregnancy-like symptoms. I also do not experience a breakout unlike the past months where I will break out like I just reached puberty. I woke up with a warmer body in the morning that Mr. J thought I was running a slightly high temperature. I feel the same way sometimes. Which reminds me; S told me that a basal thermometer would work too. According to her, the temperature of your body should slightly increase each day when you test it in the morning right after you wake up. The increase in the temperature would mean that it's possible that I'm pregnant.
Went to do some reading & I find this pretty interesting:
Source
Some understandings with regards to this whole faint-line-on-pregnancy-kit episode:
- It could mean that you ovulated much later than the average 14 days normal ovulation reading.
- It could mean that you test it during a later part of the day, where your urine is diluted as compared to the the first urine in the morning after you wake up - hcG level is much higher then.
- Worst come to worst, it could also mean that your hcG level is too low and it could result in a non-viable pregnancy (Naudzubillah min dzalik). :( Whatever it is, I should remain positive.
Maybe I shall monitor some more.
Banyak do'a dear me.
27 February 2016:
Mr. J and I went to buy the twin set of Clearblue HPT as I was planning to test it by the end of my supposed menstrual cycle, and the week after, if the faint line still making it's appearance.
29 February 2016 (7 days after Test Day):
Woke up to the sound of Mr. J waking up at 5, revising for his course. I was still feeling groggy, but I felt the need to pee. Quickly went to the HPT box, and took it to the washroom.
I can't seem to tear the plastic apart. My heart was pounding furiously.
When I finally got it torn apart, my heart whispered, "Please Ya Allah. Berilah petunjuk kepada kami. Kalau saya mengandung, berilah tanda-tanda yang jelas". I sat down, peed and waited...while my heartbeat started to raise.
The test window started to shade...
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
"Please, please, please".... my heart begged.
Out came a +. It was a positive. I remembered staring at it in disbelief and almost blurted out an Alhamdulillah, while still seated on the toilet bowl. Tak senonoh.
I cleaned myself up and figured a way to let Mr. J know.
[Background: Prior to this date, wayyy back before I'm supposed to have my period, he has been asking me when is my period due. Macam tahuuu je.]
So, in a way, I can't surprise him since he has been very involved in this whole testing thing. Hmph. Nevertheless, I went to him and told him, "It's time to get me a new comfortable bed", and placed the test kit right in front of him.
His eyes widened as he took the kit and looked at it. Smiled to me and said Alhamdulillah, hugging me so tightly after that. I started tearing... Both of us have been waiting for this day to come.
Syukur sangat sangat.
I *should* be 5 weeks pregnant? According to the estimated calculations done over the net.
Now now, I do have a number of shortlisted female Gynaes I have in mind under KKH:
1. Dr June Tan
2. Dr Suzanna Sulaiman
3. Dr Tan Kim Teng
Hopefully, there's slots for any of the three above.
But before that, insya'Allah will do some "formal" checks to confirm.
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